My Dear Void, thats something I have been thinking the past couple of days. Until now I have regarded these kind of matters somewhat universal. But now I realise that they are not. There are as many different definitions to it as there are people in the world since there are no mold for people. They are born unique, life smooths the rough edges but they are still unique inside.
So what is the act of showing love in everyday situations? How do you let your special one know that you love them? Its somewhat rhetorical question because there are no answer that could be singled out as I said before. And I guess you have to thank God if you happen to find that person who matches with you in this matter. Since if the match doesnt happen, one thinks that there are no love being shown and the other wonders why their gestures (that are supposed to show their affection) only seem to lead to unhappiness.
I am a person who appreciates little things. I dont necessarily need enormous gestures to feel loved. (Though I wouldnt mind something like a serenade under my window and candles spelling out how much that person loves me, well, who wouldnt like something of the sort). I like these little reminders every day, little spontaineous acts to see/hear/feel that someone is thinking about me and misses me. I like sweet and simple things, calling that someone out of the blue just to say that you are thinking about them.
I dont know really how to describe things like that. But I have experienced it firsthand when you do all these things (that I would like seeing done for me and what would make me happy) and yet you see that special person disgruntled and doubting wether you have any feelings for them at all.
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